Heat one tea spoon of oil in a fry pan and add mustard seeds, as soon as they splutter, add urad dal, and when it turns golden add asafoetida and curry leaves.
Similarly add green chillies, onion, garlic and sauté for few minutes.
Add lady’s finger and sauté for few more minutes.
Add the chopped tomato. Saute for 2-3 minutes.
Finally add one cup of arisi mandi and turmeric powder and cover with a lid.
Allow it to cook for 10 minutes.
Remove the lid,and add the remaining arisi mandi, tamarind water, and check for salt. Add salt if needed.
Check the consistency – it should not be very thick or watery. It should be in the form of semi solid.
This can be served with rice, phulkas, idli or dosa.